Enneagram - 3w4 & 5w6

I’m A 3w4

Enneagram type 3 wing 4 is called The Expert.

3w4 people tend to be ambitious, focused, and serious. We are very career-oriented and introverted. We tend to find much of our external value and identity in our work and, as such, are very task-focused.

3w4 types are hard-working and analytical problem-solvers. But, we withdraw from others when stressed and prefer to spend time thinking alone. Our base fear is being incapable or incompetent. We excel at making practical and logical decisions.

He’s A 5w6

Enneagram type 5 wing 6 is called The Troubleshooter.

5w6 people tend to be practical, independent, and logical. They are cooperative and unassuming in groups. But, their passion for using their knowledge to solve real-world problems often puts them in leadership positions.

5w6 types are focused and well-organized with a passion for learning and growing. They have a penchant for solving difficult or complex problems. They distinguish themselves by remaining calm in times of crisis.

Together

I’m an INTJ 3w4 and he is an INTP 5w6. In the end, two nerds are better than one especially when they are best friends and getting married.