Resilience Factors
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) change how hard someone has to work to succeed. The more ACEs someone has, the more likely they are to be at higher risk of risky behaviors and dying earlier. But, making good life choices is not enough to reverse the effect of high ACEs. Having a high ace score is considered 4 or more out of 10.
What are the ACES?
Physical Abuse
Emotional Abuse
Sexual Abuse
Physical Neglect
Emotional Neglect
House Hold Dysfunction - Mental Illness
House Hold Dysfunction - Incarcerated Relative
House Hold Dysfunction - Mother Treated Violently
House Hold Dysfunction - Substance Abuse
House Hold Dysfunction - Divorce/Abandonment/Death of a Parent
What are the resilience factors associated with overcoming ACEs?
Yoga
Dance
Art
Writing
Music
Social Connections
Mentors
School
Reading
Animals
Ultimately, there are numerous resilience factors. But, in general, the factors end up being in two categories: connections and creativity. To overcome adversity a person will need emotional and social connections to healthy people and sometimes to animals. Additionally, it takes a brand new worldview to overcome poverty and its mindset. So, creativity is key in not only surviving but thriving after a childhood full of high ACEs.
In the end, what matters is not what worked, but that something did work in helping a child pull themselves out of a childhood marred with pain.