Behavior is a Language
Sometimes pain in the short term, like divorce, is worth it to avoid a future of suffering for yourself and your children. I recommend this video for anyone who finds out their husband is cheating during their pregnancy especially if when caught, the husband blames the wife for his actions. Dr. John is brilliant and empathetic in this video.
As Dr. John says, “Behavior is a Language. He has told you loud and clear with his actions that he does not want to be:
A person of integrity and character
A husband
A father
I am not going to hate on him for having an affair. Those are wrong, and they happen. But, his actions have shown a gross lack of character.”